Wash. Dry. Repeat.
It’s a cycle I try to avoid as MUCH as possible actually. Showers? Yes please! Washing my hair? Not so much.
I think it has more to do with the time it takes to wash, condition, comb out and then blow dry that makes it all seem so daunting. And growing up with curly, unruly hair, I’ve never been the girl that wanted to go home so she could “wash her hair.”
In fact, growing up, I would fight the hairbrush until my mom found a hairstylist who knew how to work with curly hair and could blow it out like magic… I would leave the salon with silky smooth hair and I’m pretty sure I would try and stretch it out to at least a week before washing. And that was before extending the life of your hair between washes was the popular thing to do.
My feet would prance a with a light step and my twirls took on a life of their own with that “effortlessly” fluid shine. Until a couple of days would pass and then it would be all ponytails and braids to hide the grease (but at least it wasn’t a frizzy curl, my nemesis back in the day!). Before I knew about dry shampoo – and possibly before it even existed – baby powder was my go-to product for extending the life of my blow out… and to this day it still works great!
We all know it, a good hair day – and healthy, beautiful hair in general – gives us a little pep in our step and helps us to walk boldly. You know what I’m talking about too, that little bit of stride when hair is on point.
But as a busy mom I don’t have the time to do the wash, dry, repeat cycle daily (or even regularly!). How long can you go without washing your hair? How long does your hair last before that healthy bounce turns into something, well, less confidence-inducing?
To get those extra days between washes, it’s so important to use a product that really takes care of your scalp and gets it clean, as well as train your hair to last longer. The great thing is that both are doable and I’m sharing 5 essential tips to make it happen!
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How Long Can You Go Without Washing Your Hair?
The Secret to Keep your Hair Clean Longer: Step 1
To get the most out of every wash, use a shampoo that really gets the job done. Not all shampoos are created equal and for a long time I would leave the shower with parts of my scalp still feeling greasy, which means I was already starting the whole wash, dry, repeat cycle with grease and build up. Not fun.
From the first wash with the new Pantene Charcoal Collection Shampoo and Conditioner, my hair felt clean and fresh!
If it seems like activated charcoal is having a moment in the beauty world spotlight, with products from pore strips and masks to teeth whiteners and more all using it – you’re right on. Unlike skin, hair does not have a built in detoxification system, so to train your hair to go days between washing – with oils, styling products and dry shampoo building up – you need a product that can do some heavy lifting. And it’s time for our hair products to have some fun with activated charcoal too.
The charcoal system in the Pantene Charcoal Collection Shampoo and Conditioner includes a blend of pro-vitamin B5, activated charcoal, and antioxidants that works to detox hair by attracting impurities like a magnet. It all works together to reset the balance leaving the hair refreshed (and not feeling greasy!).
The Secret to Keep your Hair Clean Longer: Step 2
Now that our hair is refreshed and clean with body and shine, make sure you are only applying conditioner to the LOWER half of your hair. A good place to start is from the ears down. Don’t even come close to your roots! Your scalp will secrete its own oil that will work its way down the hair shaft – so we’ll let the body do its job and we’ll just condition the rest.
I’ve been using Pantene Charcoal Collection’s Conditioner as well as the shampoo, and it’s Pantene’s first silicone-free conditioner that rinses out quickly leaving that still-clean feel for renewed fullness and shine.
The Secret to Keep your Hair Clean Longer: Step 3
Don’t touch it.
Honestly, there isn’t a whole lot to be said for this one, except that.
When your hair is dry, the more touching, running-fingers-through and messing with it that you do, the greasier (and dirtier) it will become, just from the oils on your hands alone. If you want a blow out to last a long time, keep the hair-touching to a minimum.
The Secret to Keep your Hair Clean Longer: Step 4
Sleep with your hair up! I’ve mentioned it before, but I always wrap my hair up in a top knot or bun on top of my head before bed. When it comes to hair, the less friction the better… it will keep your hair healthy, and even provide a bit of body and curl when you wake up. Plus, with your hair up and out of the way, you’ll typically sweat less, leading to a longer-lasting clean.
The Secret to Keep your Hair Clean Longer: Step 5
When going three or more days without washing – scalp oils, styling products, dry shampoo and dirt build up. Sometimes this build up can result in hair gaining 4 percent of its own weight. FOUR PERCENT. Isn’t that crazy? Let’s not enhance that extra weight with too much product.
I find that adding much product after washing weighs hair down right away, leaving me with less body and fullness. Instead, I opt for a smaller amount of product and ALWAYS start applying at my ends, not at my roots.
With dry shampoo – which I definitely use – I wait until about day three, or when I truly need it. Even then, I just apply it to the top and front areas of my hair, spray lightly and massage it in! I find that using it too early makes my hair feel weighed down and dirty too soon and my hair won’t last as long between washes.
So tell me again, how long can you go without washing your hair? With a little training – both for you and your hair (because it will need some time to adjust and will slowly produce less oils the less you wash it) – a great shampoo, and these few tips, I’m sure you’ll be able to stretch it out a little longer.
For me, all of that just translates to more time to do the things I love… like play with our new kitten! And LESS time on the wash, dry, repeat cycle.
PS. I’ll share more about our new kitten and that CRAZY story soon.
This is a sponsored conversation written by me on behalf of Pantene. The opinions and text are all mine.
Tanvi says
The longest I have gone is a week … I cannot wait to try this Pantene line. Have heard so much about it.
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Mel says
Hi Tabitha,
thank your for this funny and yet informative post 🙂
Mommy Peach says
Honestly, I cannot let a day pass by wihout washing my hair! But since I am a fan of Pantene, I would like to try this line of product from them.
Katrina Ellen says
I love that there are steps to take where we don’t have to wash our hair as often. I need to check out the new Pantene Charcoal!
Kelsey says
I loved this post because I hate washing my hair lol
Alli says
I’ve never thought about sleeping with my hair up. I’m going to try that one. I have dry hair so I don’t wash it every day. I needed these tips!
Amber Myers says
I usually wash my hair once a week. I have long hair, and it takes forever to dry, so once is all I can manage. I will do it twice if it starts to stink though.
I love Pantene!
Pam says
First, I have to say your kitten is adorable! But I can’t go for more than a day or two without washing my hair. I think I touch it too much. I never thought about that adding grease.
Jeanette says
I hate washing my hair also because it takes forever. There are days that I just want to jump in and out of the shower and if I get my hair wet have to condition it because otherwise I can’t get the snarls out. I will have to check out the new brand for painting. I wonder if it would help my hair.
Tasheena says
I really enjoyed reading this post. These are all wonderful tips. I can’t wait to give this product a try.
Joline says
That’s a great tip about using a conditioner. All these years I’ve been using it wrong and probably using wayyyy too much.
Sarah Bailey says
This is really interesting I had never thought about the weight added by products! But wow! 4% that’s crazy! I probably overwash my hair quite a lot, something I need to work on.
Marysa says
One.. we need to hear more about that adorable kitten!
And two.. I can totally relate to the busy mom thing. After a crazy long day I don’t want to deal with blowing out my hair and staying up late just to wash my hair. These are great tips. Not only does it save your hair but your sanity too!
cathy mini says
i love it and this is such a great tips that i love to try pantene is one of the best .
Heather says
Well, I’ve always been a Pantene fan but you had me at the cute kitten pics!!! So adorable!
Terri Steffes says
I’ll try the avoid-the-root-system the next tome I wash my hair. 4 days is about as long as I can stand it.
Jenn@Engineermommy says
These are smart tips to keep in mind. I usually won’t go more than 2 or 3 days between shampoos.
Gisele says
My hair is short so I wash it daily. I’ve never had really long hair but can imagine it would be impossible to wash it every day.
Anosa Malanga says
I cannot imagine days of not washing my hair. I normally dry my hair two times a day. It’s already part of my taking care of my body.
Susie says
Hi TABITHA. Great steps to hair care! I mus keep my hair from damage with your steps. Thank you very much for your sharing. I love to have my hair wash everyday so I need soft formula treatment. I also need to have my hair dried. I bought a new hair dryer http://www.womensedge.org/best-travel-hair-dryer/. I can’t forget both shampoo and hair dryer for my trip next month. And also your steps! Thanks for sharing.
Halee says
Wow! Thanks for the great tips! I have been looking for a website I can trust FOREVER… and your kitten is totally adorable!