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Sitting next to the love of my life… it’s a perfect moment to answer the question: “How do I boost his self-esteem?”
With him, the answer is pretty easy, because he’s TOLD me.
When we were first married, he let me know that I make him a better man.
*pitter patter goes my heart*
In that conversation, he expressed the fact that I affirm him, I give him credit and acknowledgement for what he does and even what he tries to do… and that makes him want to be an even better man. Men aren’t always too hard to figure out. They love to be noticed, acknowledged and even praised for their efforts. They love when we notice the work that they do… and usually that makes them want to do more. Way better than nagging, right?
Unfortunately, I don’t always get this right. Writing this makes me want to be better. I’m reminding myself of this with each word I type.
The book “The Five Love Languages” is an excellent read in helping to discover what really gives you and the people in your life a boost. Learn to speak their language, and you’ll get right every time… or at least almost every time.
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antoinette marie says
the key to your success is that you both focus on each others needs, rather than your own wantingness. you can see how happy you two are and it’s a joy to watch! good advice from a woman getting it right…blessings!
Rachel says
this post was just what i needed! seeing your pic and reading your happy thoughts picked me up out of a funk. you made me text my husband that i love him. thanks!
Pennies In My Pocket says
Awesome post! You can feel the love and tell that you truly value him and love him with all your heart!
Thanks so much for participating this weekend in my Meme! If you could, add a link back to the Meme post do that others can join in. If you get a chance. 🙂
Oh and I LOVE that photo! Such a stunning couple!!!
~melody~
Blissful Babe says
You two are such a beautiful couple! And you look absolutely BLISSFUL. 😀
Something so simple is never always so easy to remember. 🙂
Mc Allen says
True True True… Ith wonderful that your both willing to make the effort, because it certainly does take both. Could you two be any cuter?? I don’t think so!!! LA
Sri says
A really excellent article and nice pics of a happy loving couple. Nothing like love for building a high self esteem. I have a some interesting posts on success at http://www.motivationalnotes.com. Take some time to visit the blog.
Crystal says
I’m telling you, Nagging gets you now where, LOL. Seriously, Love ya. See ya later.
lisaschaos says
You’re right and I could imagine your feelings as you typed. Because the better my hubs is to me the better I too want to be. 🙂
Grace says
what a terrific photo, and very wise words as well. 🙂
jennykate77 says
Ahhh, this is good…good advice. It’s so true that men thrive on hearing our praises. LOVE the photo of you and your honey!
Are You Serious! says
♥ How sweet! He sound like a great guy! 🙂